Delicious Theory by Colorado Speaker Cynthia Nimerichter

My Heart Belongs to Ted — and Dahlia Elizabeth

Cynthia Nimerichter — Tue, 02 Nov 2010 21:15:33 +0000

I spent Valentine’s Day with the object of my affection. We went out for Italian food, and I presented a small gift which seemed to be well-received. My husband Ted looked on adoringly.
Arriving at her door in New York City earlier that day, I had fallen in love with Dahlia Elizabeth the moment I set eyes upon her. Our 4–week-old niece is perfect! Well, she does look kind of like E.T. when she cranes her neck, but even that is charming at her age.
And we further bonded when I accompanied her on her first shopping trip. The sales at Lord & Taylor were fantastic and Dahlia was pleased as punch when I bought her Mary Jane patent leathers and a velveteen top. She cooed her approval as I zeroed in on two blouses and a pair of jeans.
But mostly we hung out. Watching my baby sister and brother-in-law with Dahlia was a delight. I never doubted that they would be good parents but I wondered how easily they would adapt to the big change in their lives. Now in their late thirties, they have spent the last 15 years in demanding jobs, spending weeks at a time out of the country. I would lose track of which of them was on which continent. When they were in town, they were often out and about, attending dance performances and the theater, dining with friends in Chelsea or Soho.
Jodee and Gaspard were both off work the first three weeks of Dahlia’s life and they seem content with their narrow routine, which revolves around Dahlia’s intake and output. They have fashioned a darling nursery in their small, fourth-floor walk-up in Greenwich Village. They exiled furniture to storage to make room for a glider rocker where Jodee nurses her daughter.
No family members live close enough to help out on a regular basis. And, speaking on behalf of Jodee’s family, the distance between Colorado and New York seems many times farther than it did a month ago. But Jodee and Gaspard lucked out; they have an easygoing daughter. She eats well, she sleeps well, and she is regular — no Metamucil® needed for her!
This ebony Haitian man and his pale Danish-Irish, redheaded wife have produced a most amazing creation. Maybe she will play the piano with those long fingers she inherited from her father. Perhaps she will have her mother’s sense of humor. Will she love to dance as both her parents do?
That is the wonder of a new life, isn’t it? There are so many magnificent possibilities.
This was a wonderful Valentine’s Day. One can never have too many valentines.

Pedaling Away!

Cynthia Nimerichter — Thu, 13 Aug 2009 21:04:27 +0000

A 250 mile bike ride is not for me. I am still shell shocked that I signed up and went on this adventure. I did ride 140 miles of it—the other 110 of the mostly uphill miles were in the sag van. A sag wagon is the support and gear vehicle. Or the “take me to the top of this stupid mountain” vehicle.
I will never do it again. I cannot both breathe and move at 9,000 feet and above—there is no air! And how can you leave and return to the same spot four days later having ridden twice as many miles uphill as down? Isn’t there a downhill for each uphill? It does not seem physically possible but I am sure I ended at my starting point 4,000 feet higher in the air.
I will never do it again. The first morning I arrived at the 7 am group orientation wearing my cycling clothes: khaki shorts, a sleeveless white golf shirt, and sandals. Everyone else was in bright shiny shirts, padded shorts, and clickety clack shoes. I thought they were show offs but, over the four days, I learned how certain clothing aids the rider.
I will never do it again. The other 22 riders were serious about going the distance. Several of the men were hammerheads, making it a race. Though I must say they were all exceptionally nice to me and tried to lift my spirits when I came in hours after everyone else. I connected to a couple of great guys who live less than two miles from me. And I befriended an adorable 11-year-old named Alex who rode at my speed.
I will never do it again. The second night’s accommodations were abysmal—five of us in a room, no hot water, not very clean, right next to a state highway. It included my husband’s most hated amenities: a paper bathmat and shampoo in little ketchup packets that are impossible to open once your hands are wet. I must say though, my four roommates and I did have a long laugh when Larry’s cot gave out and plummeted him to the floor. And I did make everyone chuckle when I thanked my roommate Steve for bringing me hot coffee in bed after our first night sleeping together. (Mom, just to be clear: I shared a bed with Ted and Steve shared one with his wife Annette.)
I will never do it again. It was just plain hard. The climbs were long and steep. Though I must say I learned something: It was hard for everyone. I have always assumed that athletic feats were easy for others but once I stopped my whining and listened to the others, I realized others do it despite it being hard.
I will never do it again. I would work myself into such a sweat that I would feel light headed. I would lie down to recover—once in sticky sap, once in ants, and once in sharp pine needles. Yet, in 10 minutes, the feeling would pass and I would get up and ride some more.
I will never do it again. The descents were terrifying. Coming down thousands of feet from an 11,500 mountain pass in a few nanoseconds raised my heart rate into the stratosphere. When I dared to take my eyes off the road, I noticed that I sometimes was going faster than the speed limit for cars. I must admit, now that it is done, I find myself smiling as I remember the exhilaration.
I will never do it again. We were all up at the crack of dawn. I am not a morning person. However, I will concede that the mountain mornings were cool and crisp and beautiful.
I will never do it again. Although my buddy Alex did give me a big hug at the end of the ride and say, “Next year, Cynthia, you and I will rule!”
I will never do it again. Except that I do have this nagging thought of all the times I have lectured my nephews and grandchildren about being open to new experiences because perhaps they could learn something new, meet someone new, have a new experience.
Hmmm……

Cynthia Nimerichter to keynote SCWCC Accolades in August

Cynthia Nimerichter — Sat, 28 Mar 2009 01:46:02 +0000

Colorado Springs resident Cynthia Nimerichter has a juris doctorate from the University Of Colorado School Of Law and spent most of her legal career as a successful Deputy District Attorney, where she excelled in the prosecution of those charged with physical and sexual violence against women and children. In addition to a full schedule of inspirational speaking engagements, she also authors a weekly newspaper column in The Philadelphia Bulletin titled “Related by Marriage.”

While her column exudes humor, warmth, and insight in print, Cynthia’s professional speaking engagements project these same qualities in person. Her message – “You Deserve a Delicious Life!” – inspires audiences to consciously live in a more grateful, gracious, and generous way. The Delicious Theory™ will change your view of the world!

For thirty years, community involvement has driven Cynthia, who has served on nonprofit boards and committees, and organized countless fundraisers. She was recently honored as one of the Colorado Springs Business Journal’s “Women of Influence” and the Accolades Committee is very pleased and fortunate to be able to announce that she will deliver the keynote address at the 2009 Accolades Award Luncheon at the Cheyenne Mountain Resort, August 18.

“I found your presentation to be the best one”

Cynthia Nimerichter — Sat, 07 Feb 2009 01:41:12 +0000

“I attended the CLE presentation you put on yesterday at the EPA. I did not have an opportunity to thank you for your presentation. I found your presentation to be the best one all day, but more importantly, I found you to be inspirational. For me, your presentation came at the exact right time. Just the day before, I decided to work up a plan to get myself back to being grateful for the good things I have in my life. I have very much lost that positive outlook after losing a family member earlier this year. So, thank you for doing what you do.” -Melody Mirbaba, Assistant Attorney General

“The response from the audience was overwhelmingly positive”

Cynthia Nimerichter — Sat, 07 Feb 2009 01:35:30 +0000

“On behalf of the United States Environmental Protection Agency, thank you for your participation in the Legal Ethics for Government Attorneys program. Your presentation was informative and interesting. The response from the audience was overwhelmingly positive. I appreciate your time and effort to keep us current in this important, but often neglected, area of law.”

-Michael T. Risner, Director, Legal Enforcement Program

“Her Speech Inspired Me”

Cynthia Nimerichter — Fri, 06 Feb 2009 22:22:00 +0000

“The Delicious Theorytm applies to everyone, no matter what your profession. As a lawyer, I believe Cynthia’s theories are relevant to each of us and her speech has inspired me to work on being more gracious. The legal profession would be greatly enhanced if there was more graciousness and professionalism!”
- Leslie Hansen, Assistant District Attorney, 18th Judicial District

“Cynthia’s presentation to our Judges and Magistrates was entertaining, inspirational, and thought-provoking. Cynthia’s Delicious Theory has universal relevance and appeal, from the courtroom to the boardroom, to the classroom, to the playground, and everywhere in between. Her marvelous sense of humor and use of poignant anecdotes makes it impossible to ignore her wake up call. We all deserve a delicious life and Cynthia’s recipe can help us get there.”

Honorable Ann Rotolo, County Court Judge

“her topic was a breath of fresh air”

Cynthia Nimerichter — Tue, 11 Nov 2008 19:36:39 +0000

“Cynthia’s ‘Delicious’ presentation to the Pikes Peak Advertising Federation’s membership and guests was both much needed and quite relevant. In a time of high stress and enormous pressure to over-perform, her topic was a breath of fresh air that people walked away from feeling energized. To this day, we are still receiving positive comments about her presentation, with people thanking us for having the foresight to bring in such a dynamic and thought-provoking speaker. Thank you for what you do!”

- Mark Boswell, President, Pikes Peak Advertising Federation

2008 Woman of Influence!

Cynthia Nimerichter — Thu, 06 Nov 2008 19:01:35 +0000

The Colorado Springs Business Journal has named Cynthia Nimerichter one of twelve Women of Influence in the Pikes Peak region for 2008. The honor was bestowed in recognition of Cynthia’s decade plus work in her community, serving non profits and political campaigns. She was nominated by Lynne Telford who says that one of Cynthia’s best attributes is her ability to organize and inform people about community issues. “She talks about things in an interesting and fun way. She has a real humanness and a wonderful message about how people should enjoy their lives,” said Lynne. It is all about living a delicious life!

Corporate Training

Cynthia Nimerichter — Mon, 20 Oct 2008 21:32:20 +0000

Cynthia can tailor her presentation to your corporation. The universal themes of graciousness, generosity, and gratefulness are perfect tools to emphasize team building, being positive, moving forward, overcoming adversity, finding passion and meaning, and the virtue of ethical behavior. Let Cynthia motivate and entertain your staff as she helps them meet goals, incorporate change, and improve morale.

“This delicious concept has legs!”

- Attendee at a presentation to Advertisers

“I love the delicious theory™. Since I have heard it, I have used it and it has changed my life! Now I say no and I don’t feel guilty. I simply explain the principle–it is liberating!”

- Cari Davis, Director of Communications & Marketing, Memorial Health System

Legal Professionalism

Cynthia Nimerichter — Mon, 20 Oct 2008 21:31:35 +0000

Handouts for Civility Course
(click to download PDF)

Cynthia has created a keynote speech for attorneys that has been approved in Colorado for an hour of legal ethics and professionalism CLE credit. The topic can be expanded to a 2 or 3 hour training.

Discussed are the problems of declining civility, the importance of good relationships, and finding our unique and individual talents and using them to create a fulfilling and civil life. After all, what is graciousness if not being the consummate professional?

“The Delicious Theory™ applies to everyone, no matter what your profession. As a lawyer, I believe Cynthia’s theories are relevant to each of us and her speech has inspired me to work on being more gracious. The legal profession would be greatly enhanced if there was more graciousness and professionalism!” - Leslie Hansen, Assistant District Attorney, 18th Judicial District

“Cynthia’s presentation to our Judges and Magistrates was entertaining, inspirational, and thought-provoking. Cynthia’s Delicious Theory™ has universal relevance and appeal, from the courtroom to the boardroom, to the classroom, to the playground, and everywhere in between. Her marvelous sense of humor and use of poignant anecdotes makes it impossible to ignore her wake up call. We all deserve a delicious life and Cynthia’s recipe can help us get there.” – Honorable Ann Rotolo, County Court Judge